What To Do When Planning A Wedding Becomes Too Much
July 18, 2017
Planning a wedding is an exciting time, but it can also be a stressful time. Some brides take to wedding planning like a duck to water, but others? Well, they drown. Wedding planning takes a lot of patience, but it can also really test your patience, particularly if you’re planning a wedding away from home. If it’s all starting to get too much, the following tips could help you keep your cool and make sure you make it down the aisle in one piece.
If your wedding is causing you major stress, it may be a sign that you need to take a break. It may seem like the last thing you should be doing is take a break from planning, but if it’s all getting too much for you – the break could do you some good. Thinking of other things will get your priorities back in order and make you realise that you have more going on in your life than your wedding. You can then come back to it with a fresh pair of eyes and a clear head which will make you far more productive.
Get someone else’s perspective
Sometimes you can get so close to something, it appears blurry and jumbled and stops making sense. Get someone else’s opinion on things – a different perspective could help you make decisions easier and help you think about things more rationally, which could stop you making mistakes that will either cost you money or leave you unhappy. If you don’t want to talk to your friends or family about it, you can always try a wedding forum like the community pages at The Knot with brides going through similar situations who will be more than happy to share their thoughts with you.
Call the professionals
If wedding planning really is becoming too much and it’s affecting other aspects of your life, then maybe it’s time to let someone else take over. Hiring wedding planners or even just someone to look after some aspects of your wedding like the decor is a great way to save your sanity and make sure that a professional job is done too. You can find everything you need on websites like sourceme.com, which can allow you to focus on getting excited about your wedding, and someone else to do the hard work.
Talk to your partner
If you’re feeling the strain or that you’re doing all of the work, it’s time to speak to your other half. Your partner should definitely share some of the burden of wedding planning, and who knows, they may want to help! Split up your remaining tasks and you’ll soon feel like a weight is shared that will make them feel more included in the preparations and you with a more manageable to do list.
Sometimes all you need is a little assurance that you’re doing a good job, and while it may not always feel like it, you are getting there! Make sure to take a look at this list of the little details you need to remember just to make sure you haven’t left anything out. Keep calm and carry on, your wedding will be the most memorable day of your life so remember to breathe and enjoy it!